Sunday, September 21, 2025

A Tourist in San Francisco, Day 1

 Sept. 20, 2025

Northeast Waterfront District, San Francisco

I'm in my part-time home tonight and all is well. I don't know this neighborhood at all, but it's relatively quiet and safe on a Saturday afternoon. The apt. is really small. I couldn't find a place for Archer's crate until I moved some furniture around. It's full of art pieces and lots of interesting things to look at. I brought apples from my backyard to have with cheese and some Seavey Chardonnay for dinner. I'm pretending I'm on vacation in Paris, but really, San Francisco is very charming in its own right.



Here's an informal dog park near the Embarcadero piers. The evening light on FIDI is pretty and you can see a bit of the Bay Bridge in the distance. Surprising the park was empty at 6:00 on a Saturday night.


Who's in town for the weekend? This yacht must be worth a mint. It's complete with a helicopter on the bow and was put in place by two tugboats. Nobody emerged to invite me to a cocktail hour.



Now I'm excited! A book faire before I attend the Salesforce Park production of Othello at 7:00. Plenty to do in the city. 


Thursday, June 19, 2025

Stay Weird, Austin (ATX)

Austin, June 12 - 17, 2025

I miss writing a blog every day while galavanting around Europe. But in America, we have so many interesting places to visit. My niece Alex's marriage to Tyler provided me an entreé to Austin. And after five nights in and around the town, I'm going back. Here's a few of the stranger things.



Here's the Octopus sculpture at the corner of College St. and South Congress. Sorry to include some fellow stargazers, but this was a drive-by photo.

This, after eating Vinny's salad special of the day at Vinaigrette Restaurant at 2201 College.




Working in reverse chronological order, because who knows what day it is on vacation, here's the Gospel Band at Stubb's BBQ on Sunday. At the end of the set, they invite members of the audience to sing. A group of guys on a golfing vacation singing with some soulful family was a delightful testimony for the power of music. Wish they had lip-synched. The golfers, not the band.



Still on Sunday, I ducked into the C-bar, a newish-old-style-dive-bar developed by the owners of The Continental, up South Congress a bit. Lucky me to find it as it's not on GPS. As the thunder rumbled and the rain started pummeling, I parked under a tree I thought would protect my rental car from hail, which the radio said was coming.  Inside, I found Brandin and his Chicken Shit Band, a talented group of rock-a-billy singers. Take a listen to his introduction to Chicken Shit Bingo.





When his associate started walking through the bar with this chicken, and I identified her as a Rhode Island Red, I was shocked to learn she was unnamed. Every 4-Her knows not to name an animal destined for slaughter, but here was a chick who just needed to shit on a square to stay alive. I named her Rhoda and she did not dump on square 31, the one I bought for 4 bucks. Stayed for a few rounds of bingo (and excellent gin & tonics).


Should save this pic for another blog, but I was astonished that a semi-formal wedding at the Arlo in Bee Cave, TX, would include neon light dancing.  Over two hours, I think I missed two songs. In my headlights I had "Alex's wedding dance" every time I tackled the physical therapy for my new knee. So glad I did it, but the next day? An achy achy leg.




Monday, February 24, 2025

Thursday, August 8, 2024

JUNE 25 Morning after blues

 Here in the new 2C terminal of Charles deGaulle airport, nothing is open yet. I have followed all of the rules in getting to the airport well in advance of departure time, and have learned intra-Europe flights have different rules and standards. In other words, I was through security in Rome in 14 minutes and through security in Paris in 8 minutes (not including the getting lost time of 20, since there are four 2 terminals - A,B,C,D).

The airport is really quiet this morning and I need a cup of coffee like the espresso from La Romita. We loved that so much we broke their machine. Fortunately, they bought a new one right away. One shot of espresso topped with decaf coffee in an American-sized coffee cup: my drink of the day. I miss our group. We bonded over D’s COVID diagnosis, E’s terrible faceplant requiring stitches in a hospital outside of Perugia, 3-hour workshops and multiple one-on-one consultations, nightly rounds of the Scopa, and lots of wine from central Italy’s Umbria region. Then, the parties on our final two nights. Such joy, such laughter, such drinking.

I can’t believe I haven’t posted in nine days and tbh, will try to write everything on the plane. We’ll see how long the battery lasts. Last night, I emerged from the Hotel Midi Montparnasse in my mint silk handkerchief dress and turquoise jewelry knowing I wouldn’t be hiding under the radar. For one night, I was the star of my own adventure. I bought new Metro tickets and rode the purple #4 from Denfert-Rochereau to Vavin, just a five minute ride but one saving me steps in my too-tight sandals. Emerging on Boulevard Montparnassee, I saw La Dome, La Coupole, and many other iconic restaurants. I had time before my 6:00 p.m. to visit the Notre Dame de Marche church across the street and as I went inside, I felt a strange rumbling. It was the RER Blue line. Every 6 minutes or so, the windows rattled and the floor shook. What a shame worshippers would be disrupted during the prayers and meditations. Many believers were inside when I walked into the nave, which had concrete pillars and looked nothing like the wonders of Italy. Still they had a wall of programs for infants, school-aged children, the 18-30 group and older adults. It felt welcoming.

Nothing could have prepared me for the welcoming from Bernard, the outside host at La Coupole. I’ve learned to make reservations, even if it’s only 2 hours before the time. I arrived 5 minutes early, and he asked me where I’d like to sit. I confirmed lots of smoking would occur outside, and told him “I trust you. Let’s go inside” He proceeded to seat me in the middle, near the famous sculpture by Louis Derbre so I could enjoy it and watching people as they entered the space. Incredibly beautiful columns of light emerald green marble had trompe l’oil paintings between the bottom and the capitals. Scenes of the roaring 20’s and outside landscapes decorated the ones near me. I could see the fresh seafood on ice in one corner, an Art Deco bar behind me, and the street side off to the side.

My waiter wore the coolest sun/reading glasses and greeted me in French. I said my usual apology for speaking only a little French, but he was cool.  After discussing my love of seafood and the vin blancs on the menu, I asked him to select his favorite. A Sancerre appeared within minutes, with crusty white bread, a foil-wrapped tube, not rectangle, of fabulous butter from Normandie, and sparkling San Pellegrino.

I was worried about walking out in an hour as the servers walked at a leisurely pace, but my main course of Royal seafood on a bed of beer and wine-marinated sauerkraut arrived in a very hot plate. Skate, sea bass, salmon, and lobster arrived in a blazing-hot bowl. I took my time savoring every bite, starting with the baked salmon. A sip of water, a sip of wine, a bite of fish, and a long sigh. Thirty minutes of gustatory delight, and I was stuffed. I couldn’t believe how tender and flavorful the sauerkraut was, although the serving size must have been 2 cups. I love sauerkraut, but in a fancy restaurant? When I asked the waiter what kind of cabbage they used, he asked the chef and I received an explanation of the cooking method, not the cabbage. We had a good laugh over the typical language confusion and I learned my cabbage guess was correct:  Savoy from Normandie. Lucky guess.

Side note: when you go downstairs to use/view the gorgeous restrooms, don’t turn right. That’s where the dance band gets dressed for their show. Nice looking men.

With 30 minutes to go for show time, I looked for a taxi, then decided to return to the Metro. I’d be able to walk by one of my favorite buildings in Paris:  the Hotel DeVille. I’d have to hoof it for 3/4 of a mile, but I had on my trust Skechers GoWalk sandals, which did wreck the elegance of my outfit. So funny to be the most dressed-up person in the metro, but I had a show to get to.

Many of the stores along the Rue due Rivoli were covered in scaffolds. It looked like they were getting ready to change the signage for the Olympics. The color scheme, when applied to my Hotel De Ville, made the building look a bit too Disney for me. I wondered if there was any collaboration with the Imagineers. There was a short line outside of 38Riv, a noted jazz club two stories below the street. I wound my way down to one of the caves where French Resistance fighters plotted to find an 8 X 8 stage. Tiny seats only 18 inches off of the floor and a bar in the back made up the space. A true character introduced the show, making jokes in French about his bad English. I understood about 50% of what he said which is a 40% increase from a month ago. I sat near three Americans, two from Detroit and one from Cleveland. The Ohioan is a journalist for the Cleveland Times and he’s writing a book with his curated columns. Lucky guy, as he has to travel to complete the project. 

The band? Five French millennials experimenting with two soprano saxophones, a flute, standing bass and  too many drums kit. They were fine musicians, but with ambition comes dissonance and I had a hard time enjoying their set. Many of us were looking at our watches within 20 minutes. I give them credit, but their YouTube video suggested more traditional tunes. Only one had the swingy beat I prefer, and not a bit of funk in any of it. After, I talked for awhile with the guys, who followed me out and wanted to go have another drink. They were sweet, but my sauerkraut was started to create toxic gas and I knew I had to get walking. They said, “Thank you for your company,” and I thought to myself, I should move here. Here people gravitate toward me. It’s so cool.

Walking along the Right Bank of the Seine, I tried to get to the bridge that used to have locks on it. I wanted to get the perfect shot of Pont Neuf when the sun hit the buildings, but I kept stopping. The Conciergerie was too beautiful to omit from my pictures. I saw the Samurtaine store’s new facade and had to stop again. I powerwalked on my way to the jazz club and I powerwalked past several bridges. I knew the shot I wanted, but realized it would be full of people. The entire Pont Neuf was covered with bodies stretched out to enjoy the sunset behind the Eiffel Tower. I took a pic of them, took a shot at the Eiffel behind me, danced to the band on the bridge and thought, “Who’s got it better than me?”

15000 steps during my last day, which included a two-hour nap after wandering through the Montparnasse Cemetery. My knees ached, my head ached from too much wine, and as I drank an entire bottle of water and popped an Advil PM for my knees, I realized I had kept a similar pace as 40 years ago. I smiled and laughed and sent my family some pictures to make sure when I return home tomorrow, I’ll know this whole magical experience was real.


June 24 - Last Tango on Pont au Change

Writing in an air conditioned hotel room with a desk and refrigerator is P - O - S - H. Anyway, I should be napping but it's my last night in Paris and my trip is coming to an end. I wish I could go to two jazz concerts tonight, one on each side of the Seine. Duc de Lombards and Riv34 are on the other side of the Seine. Caveau du Huchette and Cafe de Paris V are on the left bank, but very touristy. After checking who's playing, I buy a ticket to Riv34 and think about dinner. I haven't had many fancy dinners this trip but those have been memorable. Why not just go for the top? Both La Dome and La Coupole have tables available at 5:30 p.m. and I make the reservation for the gorgeous Art Deco La Coupole. I hang the green silk outfit into the bathroom, rinse off and hope the steam will straighten the wrinkles, then settle down to think for a bit.

I love this area of Montparnasse. I feel a sense of urgency, like this is the year to split and live in Paris. But there's Archer. I can't just dump my dog on anyone and my daughter now has a dog of her own. Could I give away a dog I love so I can live my dream as a writer abroad? Do I really need a 3/2 house with a guest room that's rarely used? I might see more people if I moved. I could buy a Golden Visa and live in Italy. Rome is a bit of a shit show, however. Too busy and full of Americans. I'd never learn to speak Italian. Rouen was a great size and level of energy, but might be pretty cold in the winter. Miriam says I belong in Europe, that I can't find the culture I love in the U.S. This is true. If only I could speak French and Italian. If I'd learned Latin, it wouldn't be so hard. Maybe learning a language would keep my brain going. I could live pretty cheaply here, buy a Vespa or rent a car if I wanted to. Buy a train pass. Soak up the beauty and ignore the reality of another Biden-Trump showdown. How depressing.

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If you had told me 40 years ago I would look forward to a complicated subway ride with a few switches, I'd have vomited. But tonight, I havae an easy commute. First, I walked to the Denfert-Rochereau metro under the beautiful wrought iron sign. I took the purple 4 train three stops, to Vavin. I'm so good at this now that I'm 20 minutes early for my reservation.  I can see the famous sculpture called La Terre by Louis Derbre. My dress blends perfectly and wonder if I can get a selfie in without looking like a tourist.



No chance. My waiter arrives, and I savor just looking at the menu. So many fruits de mer to choose from. The seafood arrives from the coast every day.  I choose Choucroute de La Mer. One choucroute, one creme brulee, two glasses of sancerre and one bottle of Perrier add up to...68.50 euros, tip included. 

Every bit of bread, butter, silky sweet sauerkraut/choucroute was perfect, but the seafood was stupendous. I couldn't finish the choucroute but didn't leave a bite of anything else. 


The purple 4 metro line dropped me off at the Cite station, near my favorite church in the world, La Chapelle. The Notre Dame is still fenced off and I smiled as I remembered my virtual Notre Dame tour with Judy as we held hands and crashed into the exit in front of 20 people. I had a 17 minute walk, a walk I needed to accomplish without breaking a sweat in the 85 degrees. 

I found the rue de Rivoli, counted the blocks and joined a line outside a narrow, blank-painted door. A young man was talking excitedly to everyone, and I told him I already had a ticket.

He pointed me inside, and I walked down one, two, three levels of stairs to a beautiful cave underground. Many of the jazz clubs have Caveau in their names for this reason. At 38 Riv, I'm told the French underground had frequent meetings here. The owners have done a beautiful job with this club. The bar is in the back, so you interact with everyone as you move through the small venue. Seats are only about 16 inches tall, so knees are near chins. We're crammed in, but some guys on the side scoot over and I sit on a velvet cushion, my back resting against the wall. 


Then the Parisian owner comes in, starts cracking one liners in French, switches to broken English and we laugh at his terrible puns. He's a great warm-up act, though, and five young musicians take the stage, including the young man from the doorway. The guys to my right fell asleep, and I thought, how sad they're in the front row. I had hoped to hear my moldy fig jazz, a bit of swing and a lot of something other than this. Still, listening to music in the cave where the underground plotted was really cool, literally and figuratively. The beer was cold, too.

I thanked the owner, and he said come back for the 9:30 show. Nope. I have a sunset to chase. It's 9:00 p.m. now, and the light should be amazing. Here's what I saw, walking along the right bank of the Seine.



On the Port au Change, a band played and I sashayed down the bridge. They sounded a lot like the Stanford Band. But, this bridge affords a great view of Pont Neuf and since all of the young women were doing this selfie pose, I tried it. A bit windblown, but definitely happy!






A few steps past this photo stop, here's the band.



Now in the Left Bank, I stop to take one last shot of the old lady. Three weeks ago, only one huge crane was working. Tonight, two are locked in opposite positions.



Next time I return to Paris, the Notre Dame will be open. I'll enter, curtsey, and hope to see the Pieta at the end of the chapel. It survived the fire, its white marble darkened with ash, but I'll bet it will sparkle in December. Oh to be in Paris over the holidays! I can't believe they're going to swim in this river for the triathlon. 

Time to head underground. I remember the St. Michel station near my 2018 airbnb has a cool staircase. I can take the 4 back to dear Denfert-Rochereau and start packing.



I can't help smirking a bit. The quality of these signs is nothing like I navigated in 1984. Everything is ready for the Olympics. Except for the venues. I hope they can finish everything in time.


Back at the hotel, it's 10:00 p.m. I set my alarm for 4:00 a.m. after asking the bellman to reserve a taxi for 4:30. While my flight on British Airlines leaves at 8:00 a.m., I want to be there two and a half hours early, just to be safe. I have to unzip only one expando zipper on my backpack, and everything else fits. I have a glass of monoprix chablis left and as I sip it, I know I won't find this wine in the U.S. I smile as I remember trying to buy a bottle yesterday. No wine sales on Sunday! she screamed at me. I'm a bit sad now that I'm organized and really leaving.

That's the thing. I really don't want to leave. I want to stay in this neighborhood, write my mystery, and walk by beautiful buildings, enter jazz clubs and museums, and soak in all of the beauty I can, until I can't. Maybe I've walked around too many cemeteries this trip, but for the first time in awhile I have some focus. Could I really become an American in Paris? I've done enough research to know I could afford it, especially if I rented my house. Do I have the guts to pull up roots for a year? I'm going to dream about it.

A Tourist in San Francisco, Day 1

 Sept. 20, 2025 Northeast Waterfront District, San Francisco I'm in my part-time home tonight and all is well. I don't know this nei...